
-Friday evening
Shabbat shalom from China! I have 2 things to journal about…no pics, but I don’t want to forget these moments. Mae was still napping when I went to the 4:30 meeting. We had to carefully check all the documents (birth certificate, abandonment certificate, adoption certificate, passport, etc.) for misspellings or wrong dates…stressful!! After the paperwork part was over, Daphne explained that she and Ellen had a gift for their nieces. They had a small bit of soil (nothing to declare!) in a Hunan-embroidered red bag for each baby. (I am tearing up just writing this…) She said there is a Chinese custom of carrying a little bit of soil when you travel far away, so that you don’t ever get homesick. She said (and yes, tears were a-rolling, both from the parents and Daphne) that our daughters always have family here, that she and Ellen consider all of our babies as nieces, and they are welcome to come stay at their homes if they visit. She went on to talk about how the Chinese have a long way to go to catch up materialistically to the Westerners, but that they have good hearts and work hard, and they are good people. She hopes when someone asks our daughters where they are from, they will be able to answer “from China” with pride and dignity, because it is a good country. We were all a mess by this time. After everyone had regained their composure she got back to basics with our meeting and check out times for tomorrow. Then they left while we stayed to chat about tipping them…heaven knows they went above and beyond their duties for all of us, every single day.
Here is the 2nd great moment. I went back to the room to get my fees in order for the tours and tips from the week and had a note from Susan that they were in the playroom. So I did all that and went up to join them. The minute Mae saw me, her face lit up and she did a little jig in her walker and started chattering. Susan said she had been very fussy in the room and when they went up to the playroom she wouldn’t play, just stayed put in the walker looking tentative, watching. So, while that was frustrating for Susan, it means I have done my job and Mae knows I am #1. It’s a good feeling. We’ll work on adding Daddy in soon enough.
Then we had dinner at the same buffet where we had breakfast and, Paul, I tried the snake! It was too spicy anyway. But the food was very good, if strange. Lots of random creatures still intact, sitting in warming pans (cooked of course! But still…) Mae was very adventurous tonight, eating almost everything I offered her. Her favorites were egg noodles and watermelon. Then we came back to the room to start packing. She had a bath (I got SOAKED with her splashing) and bottle and went right down. If she does as well tonight as last night, I will be happy. I felt more rested today than I have since we got her. I also took some great video tonight that I will try and upload, if not tonight then in the next few days, of her fabulous belly laugh. What a great sound that is. Good night from Changsha, for the last time.
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